Julia Stege of GraphicGirlz.com was on the show last night. It was our first Thrive Connect Radio Evening Edition. We had new visitors and it was pretty inspiring as she shared with us, how to attract the life we want to live. Whether you believe in the law of attraction or not the truth is that we draw into our lives what we give out. Have you ever noticed that if you’re constantly griping about one thing or another, the people around you do the same thing? One person shares a critical thing then the next person may add to it or share another critical thing. If we’re not careful, we start to gather a whole group of people who all feel the same way…terrible.

The opposite is also true. If you surround yourself with positive and uplifting people you are opening the door to more joy, more love and more authentic connection. Julia helped us to understand that we get what we look for or what we are tuned into. Like when you have a new car, suddenly you notice how many cars are out there just like yours. You are tuned into what that car looks like so you notice it. The same is true of attraction, when your life is filled with amazing people guess what? It’s partly because you allow your “amazingness” to shine forth!

As a man (woman thinketh).

Maybe today is a day to be conscious of what you are attracting and giving out. Even if you’re in a store, you can make a difference by just smiling at someone like Julia did while shopping last week.